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Comment on Schizophrenic by lost in thought

lost in thought — Wed, 16 May 2012 01:00:34 +0000

well 90% of people these days have one mental disorder or another. Its more common than you think. Hope you dont but if you do learn not to use it as a crutch. People everyday live normal happy lives with the right meds. Good luck.

Comment on by lost in thought

lost in thought — Tue, 15 May 2012 01:03:48 +0000

i agree with happy guy. this is actually more common than you think. Suicide is something that alot of people at one time or another think about but thats itthey dont actually think its something they would do its just a thought. Just thinking about it is almost like thinking of getting in a car crash most people think of things that could happen in there lives but it doesnt mean they want them to happen. I think that most people think about death. But that doesnt mean theywant to die. people just wonder about the unknown. So my advice is be sad if you need to. emotions are good just dont let it consume you. happiness is much more fun to be consumed with. I take it you are young. Its normal to have mixed emotions and conflicting feelings in your teen and early adult years. Focus on the good in your life. when you step back and look at your life you will probably find you are a truly happy and lucky person,, good luck to you;)

Comment on Doesn’t give a fuck. by lost in thought

lost in thought — Mon, 14 May 2012 13:59:30 +0000

i used to share your opinion on this. But i feel like these people are cowards. They dont give a fuck because they have no true since of worth. People who dont give a fuck are usually the most unhappy people you will ever meet. They put on a good front about not caring because they are scared if they do they will get hurt. Can you imagine going though life never truly being happy because you are scared and cant trust in others. Thats sooooo not a life its a prison. So good for you that you do give a fuck lol. You will be so much happier than all those cowards!

Comment on Still in Love… by lost in thought

lost in thought — Mon, 14 May 2012 13:39:00 +0000

Well I can understand you still having this love for him. Its very common to continue to always have feelings for your first love. It gives you a since of security in your life. A since of belonging to someone and them belonging to you. I dont know how old you are but sounds like you are a young college student. My advice is stop looking for a relationship and start a new one with yourself. Its a very confusing time in your life when you transition from teenager to and adult. You often times lose yourself in other people or become what you think they want. Try to become who YOU want to be and the rest will come in time. I was always in such a rush to grow up and start my life that at times I forgot to just enjoy it ! you have to Love yourself in order for other people to love you. This guy is obviously not at a point in his life that he wants anything serious so forget about him and just be. You will be surprised how much more fun life is when you let go and just live.. good luck to you and feel free to message me if you would like to talk more or need some advice. i am “lost in thought” so add me if you like.

Comment on I Need Your Guys’ Opinions.. by lost in thought

lost in thought — Mon, 14 May 2012 13:27:41 +0000

ok so i dont want to upset you but i just went through the same situation a few months ago. I have been married for 6 yrs to my husband. Never in a million yrs would i have thought he would cheat. in fact i was always the person to say i know 150% that he would never do that. Had this situation come up i know he wouldnt have. I had my best friend stay with us everyweekend for almost a yr because her husband was over seas in the military. we all went to high school like a million yrs ago together. They had hooked up but it was different now because they were more like brother and sister than friends. My husband and I would both give her advice about her relationship and try to help any way we could. Then one night after a year of coming on to him he caved! I was completely devestated. I couldnt understand how my best friend much less my husband could do such a horrible thing. They slept together in my car and then kissed a couple of times in my homeught that beforee. She was also an employee. she continued to work for me for five months until i found out and fired her. So if this bitch is anything like the one that screwed my man you need to tell him its you or her. That people get kicked out everday and you cant save everyone. Ask him how he would like your guy “friend” that you just so happend to hook up with living with you. If he really loves you he will make her move out. Tell him to call one of her girl friends to see if she can crash with someone else. Its funny to me that she would call him and not a girl friend in the first place. She is trying to move into your territory. Take action and get that bitch out. A man can only take so much before he caves. I never thoght that before. I was always the one saying he loves me and would never do that to me. Well turns out he did. We are still together and going to counceling. Things are getting better and i know this will never happen again! I will never alow another women in my home for the night. other than my mom or sister. I think you should tell him you got kicked out and need to move in permanantly. Lol see what he says to that. Good luck to you. hope this helped. and sorry if i upset you. I just never want to see anyone go through what i have been through. Add me if you would like to chat more or need some advice on getting her out.

Comment on Girl In Waiting – Day Two – Sign Up For Spill Your Gutz by lost in thought

lost in thought — Mon, 14 May 2012 02:24:05 +0000

coming from someone who is married and going through my own set of problems maybe im not the best one to give u advice. having said that i will any way lol… marriage is a big commitment and that usually scares alot of men because they feel as if they are giving up their feedom. i think it would be wise to sit him down and try to approach him in a nonpushy manner. I believe that if he feels like u r giving pushing him to get married he will probably resent u at some point in your marraige. I would maybe tell him that you love him very much and that it makes you feel like your not a priority in his life. that you feel like he may be taking you for granted and that hurts your feelings. Tell him that you dont want getting engaged to be something that pushes you two apart but makes you love each other more. It is easy for a person to become comfortable in a living situation. He may feel like he knows how much you love him and that he thinks you will stay no matter what. Men are from mars and women r from venus is an excllent book that both my husband and i are reading together and it has made a huge difference in our communication. My husband is not a reader but we have been going throgh a rough time and he is making an effort to learn how we can make our relationship stonger. its the most amazing book i have ever read. it really helps you to understand how the opposite sex thinks and processes things. We expect men to feel the way we feel and show emotions like we do and the same goes for them. So when we handle things differntly from what they expect it is a let down and causes conflict. Your boyfriend is probably taking your attempts to get him to commit as you being pushy as most men do. We think we are just showing them we love them but lets face it. Men are slow learners!!!! I dont know if they ever really catch up to our speed lol. so if you like to read i recomend getting the book. Good luck to you. I really hope i helped. take your time and try to be patient. Love is worth the wait and It sounds like you truly love your man.

Comment on Testing~ by Spill Your Gutz

Spill Your Gutz — Fri, 11 May 2012 22:44:33 +0000

No hoops. We keep it simple so you can just spill your gutz…

Comment on Testing~ by irishcutie38

irishcutie38 — Fri, 11 May 2012 22:23:09 +0000

I hope this site doesn’t make us jump through hoops. Gonna check it out and, hopefully I will like it

Comment on Dad by sweetpie89

sweetpie89 — Thu, 10 May 2012 15:07:39 +0000

Umm .. you should tell your mother but not your sisters. and you should look your dad in his face and let him know you know and tell him that you ARE going to tell her because its not right. I am married and i would want to know even if it comes from my kids , it will hurt more comming from you but, you mother can have a second chance at love and life again don’t have her running around playing the good wife and look like a joke Tell Her

Comment on Schizophrenic by Day Sucks

Day Sucks — Tue, 08 May 2012 13:11:36 +0000

Fuck everyone in my opoion…….. Juss sayin